Sept. 24 2006

This has been lots to think bout as Life Changes and People Change....One of my closest friends wrote something on this end and figured that I would add my comments to it also.

There will always be people in this world and in this lifetime that will always try to break you down, there will always be someone who is prettier than you, who has more money than you do, who is the one who has the big house that you wish you had, the nicer car, the better job and the list could go on and on.

Yes not everything is perfect in this world, there is happiness in marriage and there is divorce, there is people who are able to have children and then there are people who cant, there are people who think they are the world and there are people who think they dont belong in this world.

Let the past be the past and move on with your life...if there is something that is holding you back from true happiness you will never move on within yourself until you learn to forgive and get over it!! Remember most you are not holding anyone back but yourself....keep that in mind. No matter how much you want to blame everyone else for your mistakes in life...its YOU that in the end has to own up to it!

I can say there are people who are going to make you feel inferior, and those are definately the ones who cannot tell you what is right for you. Your life is your life, you make the decisions that are best for you in your life. There will always be haters in this world since most of the time they are jealous of the things that you have but HATERS ARE HATERS and let them live there sorry ass lives.

Dont let anyone try to define who you are...pick yourself up when you are feeling down, tell yourself everyday how important you are in this world and remember how important you are in peoples eyes that matter most to you. Thank God everyday for the blessing that he gives you and thank him for letting you live one more day.

Remember what your goals and dreams are in this life...Have people around you that lift you up and not bring your down, Remember to tell that special person everyday your love them, Remember to tell your best friend thanks for everything and for being there :), and most importantly....."Don't dwell on past mistakes, failures or lost opportunities. Put the past behind you once and for all...learn from it and move on! "

And last but not least....You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave your past as you turn the pages of life. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things YOU WANT TO DO!!!